After Kellie returned from her first day at Mira Costa Community College, she asked me how I liked dating a hot college girl. There are two problems with that question that I thought were worth bringing to her attention. First, we are married, not dating. There is a distinct difference in the quantity of sex between the two – that's what I recall anyway. Second, when I hear the phrase "hot college girl,"it conjures up a certain mental image that is slightly incongruous with the reality here. It would be like calling me a young stud. As anyone who has been reading this blog is well aware, Kellie is a middle-aged, menopausal woman, and use of the word girl may be a tad misleading. College woman or college cougar would be a more apt description in this instance; I prefer the latter phrase. As I said, it was just a thought, which I had the good sense to keep to myself, at least until I published this post. I have a feeling that the disparity between dating and marriage may get a little larger.